Video: Don’t assume – just ask!


Nov 2026

Video: Don’t assume – just ask!

🙅‍♀️ “He can’t do that.” “She won’t understand.” “They wouldn’t want to come.”

🤔 Says who? Did anyone actually ask?

💭 An assumption is when we believe something about a person or situation without knowing all the facts.

🚧 Assumptions about disabled people get made every day, and they do real harm. They can:
  • ➡️ Build false ideas about a person
  • ➡️ Limit how we see someone and what we think they are capable of
  • ➡️ Make someone feel misunderstood
  • ➡️ Stop us from seeing that there may be different ways of doing things
  • ➡️ Take away a person’s chance to decide for themselves

🧠 The fix is simple: don’t assume – just ask the person, and be open to the different ways people do things.

📹 In this video, our Resource Pool members Nadine, Charlie and Aiden talk about assumptions and what to remember.

✨ We think this line sums it up perfectly: “Just because it’s not done the way it’s always done, doesn’t mean it can’t be done.”

🇦🇺 This is made freely available to all website visitors, thanks in part to a grant from the Australian Government Department of Social Services through the Information Linkages and Capacity Building (ILC) program.

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